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A few years ago I was working at a restaurant and noticed that the servers were always checking in on the kitchen to make sure the plates were clean before they were served. Not only that, they were always checking in on the dining room to make sure the food was good before they went to the table. It took me a few years to realize that the reason for this was that the servers were constantly checking on me, my family, and the patrons.
That was the beginning of my life as a server. I don’t know why I started doing this, but as I said, it became routine.
In the middle of my culinary education my mother said to me “when are you going to learn to serve?” When I looked at her and said “I dont know, I guess this is what it’s like,” she said “you’re in college.
I have to admit that I have been pretty good at this for a few years, but when I started doing the same thing, it brought me into the game of self-awareness. I’ve never had to do anything that requires self-awareness, but I do have a basic reason for it. I know I’m not a simple person and I dont know why it’s not obvious.
There is a lot of irony in being the man who wants to build the most iconic restaurant in New York City. It’s not too hard to understand that if you are a self-aware person you have to also be a self-aware person (you can do it, you can get it), because, in the end, you don’t really have a choice.
Ive never been able to do that to myself.
But that’s ok. It’s not like you are a self-aware person. Youre a person who is self-aware with one tiny glitch in the machinery. You don’t know if you are a person who is self-aware, you don’t know if you are a person who can do the things that a person who is self-aware can do.
There seems to be a lot of negativity around the death loop, but I think the fact that we are all self-aware is a good thing. We all have our own personal motivations to carry on. But it is a self-awareness that is so important, especially if you dont have a lot of self-awareness. And if you dont have a lot of self-awareness you dont get to do your own thing.
The main reason why, I think, you get so much negativity in the death loop is that you dont know if you are a person who can do the things that a person who is self-aware can do. And if you dont know what you are doing it takes a while to be really conscious. If you have a lot of self-awareness you dont get to do your own thing.
And the reason why is because we have a bias. We are biased towards this “self” that is so important that we don’t know that we really aren’t it. Like Ive never been. I have never had a job, I have never been married, I have never had children. I have not had any of the usual things that you would associate with having self-awareness. But it is still important.